Domestic violence can have a profound impact on anyone who is a victim, especially children. According to The Network: South Dakota Network Against Family Violence and Sexual Assault, children suffer whether they are the direct victim or witness domestic violence perpetrated against others. When children are involved with domestic violence, they may become fearful and anxious. They may feel worthless, powerless, confused, angry, guilty, sad, afraid, or alone. They may no longer feel safe.
The Network recommends that the children involved in domestic violence need support. They need daily reminders that they are loved and important. They need to know that the violence is not their fault, that they are not alone, and that violence is not okay. They also need to know that they can talk to you about what they witnessed.
Although most recover well from traumatic events, sometimes children need professional help. Seek professional help if the child is showing aggressive behavior, which includes physically hurting themself or others. He has problems that have gone on for 3-4 months with no change. She is constantly worrying about possible danger and the safety of loved ones, is withdrawing from friends and activities, or is not showing feelings about anything. If you find that your child needs additional help, reach out to a teacher, school administrator or counselor, a clergy member, health care provider, or a counselor specializing in domestic violence.
Domestic Violence resources include:
National Domestic Violence Hotline
- www.thehotline.org
- 1-800-799-SAFE
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
You also may report domestic violence at:
South Dakota Child Protection Services
- 1-877-244-0864